
How My Child Changed the Way I See the World
By Tony Cervantes Before becoming a parent, I thought I understood what children needed. I believed encouragement was enough. I believed love was enough. I believed that if I simply explained things clearly, everything would eventually fall into place. Then I became the father of a child whose mind moved a little faster than the world around him. And I realized I still had a lot to learn. Looking Through the Wrong Lens Like many parents, there were moments when I found myself saying things like, “Slow down.” “Pay attention.” “Can you please sit still for just a minute?” Those words didn’t come from a lack of love. They came from not yet understanding what my child was experiencing. I wasn’t trying to change who he was. I was trying to help him succeed. But somewhere along the way I realized something important. There is a difference between helping a child grow and asking them to become someone they were never meant to be. Seeing My Child Differently Nothing about my child had changed. What changed was me. Instead of seeing constant movement, I started seeing curiosity. Instead of seeing distraction, I started seeing a mind chasing ideas. Instead of


















